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March 3, 2012

How To Be Effective Leader Using Law Of Attraction

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Ever since the movie, The Secret was shown to the world, there is a new level of consciousness in many people about the law of attraction. The world is suddenly awakened and it brings forth a new thinking that encourages positivity in thoughts and forces people to reflect on how much of what has happened in their lives in the past is determined by what and how they had thought.

Imagine, if you take this forward, how much you can influence your life and destiny and achieve all that you desire.

Have you wandered how you can apply this law of attraction to your job and career. Especially if you are leading a team, just knowing how you can direct your thoughts can mean great things for yourself and for your staff. The more you understand it, the better off you are going to be.

If your goal is to gain respect from your team, then focus on the good that respect will do for you by visualizing on the end result. Your thought vibration will generate or attract what you think of. If you are having difficulty managing people, focus less on the difficulties but on sending positive thoughts to the problem. Happy solutions have a way of surfacing when you focus on the positives.

There is a brand new report called Attraction Acceleration, where Bob Proctor, the teacher in the movie The Secret, was interviewed by another mindpower expert, Stephen Pierce on how to accelerate the attraction factor and the science of getting rich. Bob Proctor is a real-life guru in manifestation.

In the special report, Bob Proctor said, “You don’t get rich by doing certain things.You get rich by things in certain way”.

If your goal in your career is to make a lot of money, then it would be worth reflecting on what else Bob Proctor shared :

“See people don’t earn $50,000 a year because they want $50,000 a year. They earn $50,000 a year because they’re not aware of how to earn $50,000 a month. Because they’re not aware of how to earn $50,000 a month.”

Interesting thought worth reflecting on.

The report also talks about The Law of Vibration and explains how your body which is a massive energy at a high speed, vibrates and attracts that which your thought generates. This determines what is being attracted to you.

Having gratitude is also key in attracting all that we desire. Because gratitude is our thoughts, and feelings and action and that translates into our attitude.

The law of attraction has been around for a long time and has been the guiding force of very rich and successful people. The key to achieve it is that they believe in themselves and put their trust and faith that the system works.

You can harness all this knowledge to become an effective leader and a very successful one if you so desire. Having the awareness of the forces of the law of attraction will guide you in your daily thoughts and actions. It gives you the power to guide others in your team and lead them to achieve better things for themselves too.

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Strategic Communications: How to Fine-tune Your USP

Strategic differentiation is the key ingredient in developing an overall communications strategy that will be compelling to the media, and, by extension, to all of a company’s key audiences – customers, business partners, employees, stakeholders and both industry and financial analysts.  The key to this strategic differentiation is focusing on those determinant attributes that clearly set a company apart from the competition.

Determinant attributes are the characteristics that are important to customers, yet distinguish a particular company’s products or services from competing products or services.  By identifying the product or service attributes that customers use to differentiate among competing products or services, it’s possible to learn why customers purchase from one company and not another.  This is what makes the company unique.  Every company has its own unique selling proposition (or “unique selling point” or “USP”) or it will have a hard time staying in business.

Making a List …

A list of a company’s determinant attributes may look like this:

  • Technological innovator
  • Strong partners
  • Wide distribution network
  • Strong after sales support
  • Wide range of products
  • Products are good value for price

From this list, it is then extremely important to determine how strongly the differentiation is on each attribute as compared to the competition.  This discussion more than likely will result in a fine-tuning of the USP — a reordering of the list based on these comparable strengths.

For example, the company may be seen as a technical innovator with a slight advantage over its competitors when it comes to technology, but with a clear and overwhelming advantage over all of the competition when it comes to after sales support.  The other attribute that sets it apart from its competition is pricing, which for a technological innovator is perceived to be a good value, rather than premium pricing.  The remaining attributes do not resonate strongly with the company’s key audiences, so they are then ranked in decreasing order of importance based on this analysis.

… And Checking It Twice

The reordered list of determinant attributes would then look this:

  • Technological innovator
  • Strong after sales support
  • Products are good value for price
  • Strong partners
  • Wide distribution network
  • Wide range of products

Once the determinant attributes have been quantified and qualified in this manner, the foundation has been laid to begin leveraging them as part of a strategic communications program, particularly in developing key messages.  However, this list of attributes needs to be revisited regularly to take into account new company developments, competitive pressures and macro economic trends.

How to Promote Your Job Skills to Get the Best Job

It happens quite often that the most deserving candidate with all correct combination of skills and abilities fails to grab the best job. It may very well have happened with you in the past. Weren’t you perplexed and scratched every corner of your head to come out with an answer to that? You will be surprised to know that the solution was there right beside you and was screaming at you to get noticed. It is a small mistake in your resume that we are talking about – not promoting your job skills.

Promoting your job skills with success: Key 1

While preparing a resume most people commit the error of not or under-promoting the skill set they possess for a particular job. It may appear to be a tiny mistake to the ones with huge work experience or excellent academic records, but to an employer skills of a person are what matters the most. Hence, make sure you have first gone through the exact job requirements. This would help you to understand, where you fit in. This understanding is of utmost importance while preparing a resume.

Promoting your job skills with success: Key 2

Job skills differ from people to people, but the interesting thing is that their priority also differs from job to job and organization to organization. Putting in simple words, a particular skill may be the top most priority for Company A, but may be a secondary requirement for Company B. So be careful while you promote job skills you possess. The relevant skill should always take the first place and maximum space. This would ensure that you stand out of the clutter.

Promoting your job skills with success: Key 3

Many people deem updating their resume as a mere waste of time. However, this not only gives out a wrong impression but would also harm their chances of getting a job. With time try to increase skills in you kitty and make sure the same reflects in your resume or cover letter or interview. Every employer looks for an evolved person, whose learning curves show a rise. For this reason, as you get experienced and have increase your skills, you should let people know about that.

Getting a dream job is a combination of being at the right place, at the right time with a right attitude. Everything about you should reflect just one proposition, that you are the best person for the job. To make sure this happens, promoting your job skills holds extreme importance. In a way, it is like the secret key to the plush corner cabin and the six-figure pay package that you have dream throughout your life.

7 Tips To Balance Your Personal And Professional Life

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life you can feel like you’re in the Indianapolis 500 at full throttle. In your personal life you may have kids, a significant other, friends and family that you try to make time for. Then there is your professional life that can consume a large portion of your day and night depending on where you are in your career.

It is so easy to lose control of your life personally and professionally. The two begin to blend together and you wonder where one starts and one ends. Life has to have some balance to it in order to keep you healthy and sane. This can often seem so hard to do but with a few tips you can find that balance and harmony in your life.

Can you really balance the two? The answer is a simple “yes”. Remember these tips:

1) Plan of Attack – Before you can even begin to get your life in balance you need to first know where your life is out of balance. Are you spending too much time at work and not enough time at home? Are you working on the weekends instead of spending time with friends and family? Ask yourself these questions to determine where you need some adjustment.

2) Family Obligations – Are you married, have kids or a significant other? If so your life then isn’t just about you. So when working on balancing your life, they have to be a consideration as well. What are you missing in this area? Ballet recital for your daughter? Date night with your spouse or significant other? You have to balance life and it has to include these important people in your life. So take that into consideration.

3) Delegate – It’s easy in business to do a lot of things yourself so the job gets done right the first time. However in doing so you are taking away from your personal life. This is where delegation is essential. Delegating is important to balance in your life. Delegate the things that can be done by someone else. Be sure to have good systems in place so that when you delegate there are clear instructions on what needs to be done.

4) Schedule Time for Yourself – This seems to be one of the hardest things for most people to do. It’s also the last thing on most people’s list. You have to take time for yourself even if it is only an hour here or there. It could be something as simple as just taking an hour to read your book for an hour or going on a run. No matter what you do, the goal is to take “some” time for yourself.

5) Prioritize – The key to finding balance is the ability to prioritize. You have to realistically know what needs to be done first and what can be pushed back to a later time.

6) The Art of Saying “No” – We often want to please others and so we take on more and more because someone has asked us to. By doing so you are throwing your life out of balance because sooner or later you’re going to have too much to do and not enough time in the day to do it. Sooner or later you have to say no to some things in order to keep your life balanced and happy.

7) One Thing at a Time – Multitasking was once seen as the way to get things done but realistically it’s easier to focus on one thing; finish it and then move on to the next thing. In some cases multitasking can be distracting. So stay on task, finish it and then move on to something else.

If you don’t have a sense of harmony between your personal and professional life things can take a toll on you mentally and physically. Taking simple approaches like those listed above can help you get your life balanced out so that you can be productive at work and have fun with your family and friends.

Growthink Survey Says iPhone is the Preferred Smartphone for Entrepreneurs

Growthink, a leading business planning firm and middle market investment bank, has released its 2012 findings on which smartphone brands are used most by entrepreneurs. The list includes some of the most known — and similarly most assumed — smartphones being used by entrepreneurs such as Blackberry and iPhone, but the list also shows a high number of entrepreneurs still using flip phones, about 21% across the country.

Even given this high percentage of flip phone entrepreneurial users, the iPhone beats out all other listed smartphones with a bulk of the overall market in the country coming in at a user percentage of a little under 30%.

Specific findings of Growthink’s poll were as follows:

  • iPhone: 29.0%
  • Android: 23.2%
  • Blackberry: 20.3%
  • Flip phone: 21.7%
  • Other: 5.8%

The Growthink poll can be highly useful to public relations and marketing companies, as well as freelancers and consultants in understanding what services to offer to small business owners when approaching them to offer social media, SMS, and other technology-driven services. By understanding the percentage of users who utilize smartphones, as well as which types of smartphones they use, service providers can better target and serve the needs of entrepreneurs.

According to Growthink’s president Dave Lavinsky, “The results of the poll were a bit surprising. Typically when I go to entrepreneur-focused conferences, I see the majority of attendees using iPhones. But maybe that’s because I use an iPhone, so they catch my eye more. And I’m surprised by the large number of flip phone users. I expect that to change in the very near future as smart phones and apps allow entrepreneurs to better manage their businesses on the go.”

Growthink has been helping entrepreneurs grow their businesses successfully since 1999. The company focuses on business trends that affect entrepreneurs and those who market to this ever-growing group of business owners.

For more information on the poll and what the user information implies, visit

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